tshell, I'm a divine, benevolent Goddess...I cherish being served, worshipped & adored in every way...I'm not a sadist & don't prefer a man who likes punishment & humiliation & deliberately misbehaves & causes unnecessary drama, but more one who is like a loyal, devoted pet to dote on as he dotes on me ;-) I tend to assume it's in all men's nature to want to please a woman, there's no shame in that...in fact I find it naturally very chivalrous, gallant & attractive. I live to be served.